“We’d rather give everything away to charity than see a big family feud over an estate settlement.”
When this farm couple came to us, they weren’t thinking about dollars and documents—they were thinking about their family.
They had experienced firsthand how estate disagreements can fracture a family. After going through a painful conflict over a previous generation’s estate, they wanted to ensure their own legacy wouldn’t carry the same burden. Family meant more to them than the farm itself—so much so that they expressed they’d rather give everything away than see it cause a fight among their children.
Their goals were clear:
This wasn’t just about business. It was about love, legacy, and leaving behind more than land.
As we began working with the couple, we found that their operation was structured within a corporation established in the 1970s, which meant their children would one day inherit shares of the corporation, not individual parcels of land. While this setup had benefits, it also introduced complexity.
The buy-sell agreement in place to govern future transitions of ownership lacked a clear method for determining value. Specifically, it stated:
“The party wishing to sell their shares will engage a referee and the parties wishing to purchase shares will engage a referee to determine the fair market value of the shares of stock. If the referees cannot agree then they shall engage an umpire.”
On paper, this might seem like a solution. But in reality, it created an uncertain—and potentially contentious—process from the very beginning. Without a clearly defined method or trusted standard for valuation, each party could interpret the process differently, setting the stage for delays, disagreements, and emotional strain.
At UnCommon Farms, we believe that legacy is more than land—it’s about preserving relationships, values, and a shared sense of purpose. Our recommendations were built around those principles.
When everyone understands the “how” and “why” behind the numbers, it creates peace—long before any decisions are made.
There’s power in hearing directly from your parents. This approach helps dispel misconceptions and fosters transparency—two vital ingredients for trust.
That way, when the time comes, it’s not a mystery—it’s a mission the next generation is ready for. This prepares the family not only for inheritance—but for long-term stewardship.